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Married With Benefits Season

13: Rapid-Fire: Questions (a lot of) Other H...

July 13, 2020
with Brian Goins, Jeff Feldhahn, Shaunti Feldhahn

Gathered from FamilyLife's Love Like You Mean It cruise, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn and Brian Goins answer a variety of questions from husbands--like, "Why does she ask for my opinion, then do her own thing?" "Why does she pick on my tone of voice?" "Why doesn't she say what she means?"

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

12: Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her M...

July 6, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Trying to figure out why your wife expects you to know what she's thinking? Brian, Shaunti, and guest Jim Mitchell explore how to uncover what's whirring beneath the surface in a way that makes your wife feel known--and significantly improve your relationship.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

11: When Conflict with Your Wife Leaves You...

June 29, 2020
with Brian and Jen Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Ever wonder if you're any good as a husband? Does conflict with your wife leave you feeling outwitted or inferior? Listen to Brian, Jen, and Shaunti dive into the validating differences between men and women.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

10: My Wife Cries A Lot…Help!

June 22, 2020
with Brian and Jen Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

If you don't know how to handle your wife's tears, you're in good company. You're not the only husband who's paralyzed by his wife's emotions. But what if you saw them as a way to understand her better? Listen to the insights Brian, Jen, and Shaunti offer!

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Married With Benefits Season

9: Every Hallmark Movie Is The Same. Why Doe...

June 15, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Don't turn off that Hallmark movie after only 30 seconds just because you can already guess the plot. Keep watching! You may uncover some valuable clues to the core desires of your wife's heart. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explain.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

8: Why Aren’t Decisions Ever Final For...

June 8, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Does it feel like decisions are never final with your wife? How can you get past the taaaaaaaalking and finally "lock in" an answer? Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn provide answers.

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Married With Benefits Season

6: What Do I Do If My Wife Doesn’t Tru...

May 25, 2020
with Ann Wilson, Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

As crazy as it sounds, trust can be broken within a marriage and the husband not even realize it. Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn, and Ann Wilson offer hope and wise counsel for couples needing to restore trust.

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Married With Benefits Season

5: Why Does She Ask The Deep Questions At 11...

May 22, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Why does your wife ask deep questions just as you're falling to sleep at night? Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal a simple truth about your wife and 3 steps you can take to navigate this late-night impasse.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

4: Why Can’t My Wife Land The Plane In...

May 21, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Husbands, do you get tired head in conversations with your wife as she circles the airport but never lands the plane? Understand the brain science behind these exchanges, and gain wisdom on why it's an easy win as a husband.

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Married With Benefits Season

3: How Important Is My Physical Appearance t...

May 20, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Your wife can't really be attracted to your "dad bod" right? Shaunti Feldhahn explains why a simple trip to the doctor is probably way more attractive to her than another tip to the gym.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

Bonus B: Top 5 All-Star Moves – You go...

May 19, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

In episode 2.1 you heard the top 5 "rookie mistakes" of husbands who want more sex with their wives. Now learn from host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn your top 5 "all-star moves." You got this!

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Married With Benefits Season

Bonus A: Top 5 Rookie Mistakes – Come...

May 18, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Did you listen to episode 2 and think, "Just shoot straight on this and tell me your best tipes for getting more sex with my wife?" Here's a quick-hit list of the top 5 rookie mistakes you may be making -- Come on man!

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

2: Why Can’t My Wife Focus More On Sex...

May 17, 2020
with Brian Goins, Juli Slattery, Shaunti Feldhahn

Virtually every husband wonders why sex with his wife feels more complex and frustrating than it should. Why can't she just focus on it more? Host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn, along with Dr. Juli Slattery, provide answers.

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Married With Benefits Season

1: How Long Until My Wife Believes She’...

May 16, 2020
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Many wives struggle to believe that their own husbands can see them as beautiful. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explain these feelings of inadequacy, and show how a husband can overcome them in love.

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FamilyLife Today®
Why Is He So Touchy

Why Is He So Touchy?

October 7, 2019
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

Why is he so touchy?" It's a question a lot of wives ask. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins dig into this subject and reveal how influential a wife can be as her husband grows into the man God wants him to be.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

15: Season Finale – Live Women’s...

September 30, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Season one of "Married With Benefits" comes to a close in glorious, speed-round fashion as Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn field rapid-fire questions live from 1000 women. Find out if your burning question made the show.

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Married With Benefits Season

14: Why Doesn’t My Marriage Look Anyth...

September 23, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

No, your husband doesn't act like those guys in the Hallmark movies. Not even close. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain why that's by God's design and why it's actually a good thing for you and for your marriage.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

13: Why Does He Ignore the Kids and Me When...

September 16, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Does your husband "power down" after work right when you need to talk? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins demystify this common frustration and offer tips to draw him out, including what you can learn from ESPN to gain and hold your husband’s attention.

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Married With Benefits Season

12: Why Can’t He Just Listen?

September 15, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

You want him to listen but he glazes over or tries to "fix it," frustrating you and making things worse. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain two steps to changing this dynamic, plus a pro tip just for wives to help you be heard every time.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

11: Does My Husband Secretly Want Me to Look...

September 14, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Do men secretly wish their wives looked like bikini models? The shocking results are in. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins discuss and offer wives practical guidance on overcoming their most common insecurities.

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FamilyLife Today®
What If Hes Not Worthy Of Respect

What if He’s Not Worthy of Respect?

September 13, 2019
with Brian Goins, Shaunti Feldhahn

When a husband doesn't deserve respect, should his wife show it anyway? Shaunti Feldhahn presents steps wives can take when their husbands shows little respectability.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season 1

10: Can My Spouse and I Have Friends of the...

May 27, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Can you or your husband still have friends of the opposite sex? Yes, but with a few caveats (#itscomplicated). Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins offer calming wisdom on a lightning-rod topic. Learn how to guard your marriage without putting your head in the sand.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

9: Why Does My Husband Choose Video Games Ov...

May 20, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Why would a husband choose video games over his wife? Isn't that juvenile and destructive for a marriage? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins discuss this sensitive topic in search of win/win solutions for both husband and wife.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season

8: Why Does He Care More About Work Than Me...

May 13, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Providing financially while also building family relationships is hard for many husbands to balance. Often it's the wife yearning for more closeness at home. Learn how to talk it through and together find the work/home balance you desire.

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Married With Benefits™
Married With Benefits Season 1

7: Why Does It Take Such Nagging to Get Help...

May 6, 2019
with Shaunti Feldhahn

Honey, the trash needs to go out, but please don't take it now because I like asking 12 times, said no wife ever! Then why is this so common? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain what's really behind this and how to move a husband to action without nagging.

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FamilyLife Today®
Understanding Differences Day 1

Understanding the Differences

April 22, 2013
with Shaunti Feldhahn

There’s no denying that men and women are different. But do you realize HOW different?

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